that fine line between romance and friendship

friends are friends...best buds, cliques...whatever you call your's...like i call mine alphabeto..friends are friends...and you cant change that

friends are great to have around...they make us who we are...they comfort us...we really enjoy being with them...everyone has friends...
everyday hanging out...doing happy-nonsense...doing useless fun stuff...hanging out at their houses everyday...every second...planning...playing...all those stuff you do with your friends...irreplaceable...seems like the bonding you guys have...unbreakable...right?..yup it is unbreakable....but it is WEAKENED...or something like that...

now this is where my entry really comes into perspective...

believe it or not i got the idea of writing this entry...when i watched the lion king 3...yeah...a great message of friendship...plus ironically...my friendster horoscope said something about this....

that fine line between romance and friendship

ok...back to the friendship thingy...your bond with your friends...as i said is unbreakable...friends are forever..dont forget that...although it is weakened...especially when your friend...starts having a relationship...a much deeper relationship with someone else...

im not saying that this is a bad thing...as a friend, you MUST be happy for him or her....but sooner or later...you'll realize...things arent what they used to be...
all the attention THAT was focused on YOU...is now focused on his or her special someone...and that's pretty devastating on your part...cuz you were happy and thought that nothing can go wrong, no one can get in the way...but...you were wrong someone DID get in the way...

i've felt it...and it kinda bothered me...but it got better through time...it's like this gap...for now he wants to spend time with her...and only her...and now i can only feel happy for them...

although now it's the other way around...i mean...now it seems that..i dont want to spend time with them...i want to spend time with her...and..only her... so a message for my boys...if any of you ever get to read this...you'll know how i felt before...and you MUST know how i feel now...

this gets better through time...i know...i've seen the final product...ok not exactly the final product but you get my point...


this is all i can write right now...i'll add stuff soon...
1 Response
  1. Tricia Says:

    Uhm...yeah...friendship and love can never be the same...but there is only a thin line dividing it... Uhm...I hope your friends understand you... Uhm... I dunno what your friends are thinkin right now... Uhm...but I hope they understand you... They've been experiencing what your going through right now...so they should understand...hopefully...uhm...if u evr need help, d2 nmn aq eh...okie?